Open letter to boys who cheat

Hello boys,

My purpose is not to offend anyone. Neither I am saying that all boys cheat nor that girls don’t. But this for those boys in particular who cheat. 
A relationship is a bond of trust and understanding not forgetting love. But when one breaks it off, it hurts. 

But breaking trust is worse than breaking off a relationship. 
Some clarifications or “justified” reasons that such boys give are:

” She loved me too much”

They say that the girl lost all her hobbies and did things that the guy loved like watching cricket, hanging out with his friends while the boy never sat and cries while she saw tragic love story. They complain that their girl lost herself. 

Boys, why do you forget that she lost herself in the process of loving you. And if she is isn’t her old self then help her out instead of cheating her. You are the reason so you be the solution.

“She always pesters me by calling every hour”

They say that let us live our life in peace. Why to pester us like mom does. Calling every hour asking where I am, did I have my lunch properly and so on. 

Guys, you are lucky to have such girl in your life because only those who love you deeply will care for you. Your friends may not disturb you but let me tell you not everyone will be their to support you when you are unstable. But the person who loves you will be there. These regular calls or “disturbances” just give her the satisfaction that you are safe and sound. Thats all she prays for.

“She is no fun anymore”

She does not party like she used to and is always worried about future and this thing or that thing. She is boring. 

Boys, fun is just temporary part of life. In this rat race you have to stand out and be you. If your girl is worried about you that means she wants you ti be a big man and not just a party man. Her worries are for your life and your benefit. 
These are common clarifications you give but my friend let me tell you she is the perfect girl with purest heart and unconditional love. All your complaints are because of you and the solution is also you. But you chose the wrong solution. Instead of cheating her you could have broken up but you neither have the courage to leave the perfect girl nor helping her out. 
So next time if you find her imperfect leave her because the departure of someone she loved is less painful than the trust shattered by the person she believed loved her the most.
Thats it.
Yours full of anger, 



8 Comments Add yours

  1. my god, in anger ur writing is beautiful and bitter …. liked it. :*

  2. Saloni this is cool ๐Ÿ™‚ Hat’s off that you spoke your heart out. They guys who respect girls don’t need these kind of lessons. But, your words definitely would help some ๐Ÿ™‚ Thanks for sharing. I am glad to read this ๐Ÿ™‚

    1. Saloni says:

      Thanks. Guys who respect girls will never ever hurt someone. Its for those who give useless clarifications after cheating :/

      1. Yes, I can understand you Saloni ๐Ÿ™‚ hope your message reaches the ones intended for ๐Ÿ™‚

      2. Saloni says:

        Fingers crossed!!

  3. Trust Karma.

    She will bite the guy eventually, when it is least expecting.

    As for the excuses, they are baseless. Just as the guys are.

    1. Saloni says:

      True. I just wanted to share what was their in my minds. Thanks for your views ๐Ÿ™‚

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